I've read an article in a website(http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/articles/growth/single.html);it's one of the world's mental health website.It's good for some sort of light reading...bear in mind,this website is not specifically for those who has mental problems/distortions/disturbances,yet it dedicated to all readers.It more to inspiring or motivating people.The article's title is "Single & Satisfied".
It quotes:"...being single can be a life-saving, rejuvenating experience. In fact, one can't truly be successful in a relationship without being single for a time. Being single allows us to do what we want, when we want, and with whom we want without having to answer to anyone. Being single allows us to take full responsibility for paying our bills, cleaning and decorating, cooking our meals, planning our activities, and entertaining ourselves. It allows us the time to sit in quiet solitude...,
"...Basically, being single affords each of us the opportunity to discover who we are, what we do and don't like, how we deal with things, what we want out of life, what our expectations are, what our potentials and limitations are, what energizes and empowers us, and what discourages and disappoints us. The goal of being alone should not be to prepare us for couplehood. Rather, the goal of being single should be to learn to fulfill ourselves, to meet our needs, and to develop as a human being regardless..".
I really wanted to dedicate this article to my friends out there, who are so worried over this matter(why they're still single?)Listen,you don't have boyfriend yet because it's not the time yet.It's not because you scaring people away but they(men)scared for no reasons.It's just because there is no right men yet for you and the time is not right...right now!
Do not worry over the small things okay!Hiish,
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