Generally, the idea of above matter is an outcome of my aggravated emotion when I’ve being asked questions related to my status. Among of that ‘cliché’ questions are:
1. Do you have boyfriend? / Do you have boyfriend already? / Don’t you have boyfriend yet?
- Basically all of above questions bring the same meaning and typically these first questions are open- ended (yes/no) questions. Interestingly, may the answer is yes/no…there will be several sequence of questions after it. There will be second question after we answered the first question.
2. 1. Who? How/when/where do you meet him/her? ; these questions goes to ‘yes’ answer –isn’t it comical?
2.2 What!?...Why? When are you going to have one? - well, that’s totally comical!
As for me, my answer right now would be ‘no’… and basically I’ll get additional question that lead to the next questions:
3. Don’t you feel the sense of urgency to have boyfriend at your (I’m just 23) age right now?
4. Don’t you worry of being single for the rest of your life?
5. Don’t you feel lonely?
I’ll give the answer for questions no. 3, 4, & 5. Since my answer for question no.1 is ‘no’, therefore my answer for these 3 questions definitely is ‘no’ too. I don’t see any urgency of having a boyfriend because I love my single life right now. I am not worry of being single for the rest of my life because I’m not decided to stay single forever. But, for the time being, I’m not ready for any romantic relationship a.k.a commitment. I believe that God had created someone for me and if we are meant and made for each other…we will be together one day.
Plus point, I’m not lonely, I have my parent, siblings, families and of course wonderful friends with their superb friendship. So, being a singleton isn’t bad at all for me at this moment.
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